The Questions

‘you will never be without a friend’

That battle in the mind, how do we stand up tall and win? Its like David and Goliath. Because these always seem undefeatable and gross! Can’t explain it better…

How do you get up again after you have failed so many times?

How do u get the motivation to keep going after you have been told repeatedly you are not good enough?

How do u get off the couch knowing your teammate is working ten times harder to earn you spot?

How do you remain consistent after you have reached the top?

Despite the questions always know, you will never be without a friend. Those hard days where u feel alone is when you are not alone. I think we all have our guardian Angels even on earth. Take the big step and get off the couch! Stop feeling sorry for yourself and try. The reason I try is because I want to see how far I can go. There’s no limitation to what we can do and its not just a word, we must believe it.

Nothing is Easy, some days are harder than others but always find a positive when things are hard, rehearse every situation in your mind so that it will be easy when the time comes…because I don’t know to, maybe some questions don’t have answers…

CAF WOMEN’S SYMPOSIUM

‘Am more grateful to all who put me in this position ‘

This week turned out to be more than I expected, nothing is more rewarding than spending your days doing what you love . I had the pleasure of being invited for the CAF Women’s Symposium in Marrakech, Morocco.

I can’t put into words what an amazing experience its been. Straight from Zurich from the FIFA Equality and Inclusion as a speaker to this, doing things I love. I am more grateful to all who put me in this position, to God for always giving me strength and for you all for the endless messages of support I receive every day in my inbox.

I have met incredible people and made a lot of friends I hope to have with me for not only life but also for the togetherness of us developing women’s football.

I got to play along side these great Legends of Africa. What an honour

Special thanks to Concave football boots, Common Goal, Sseninde Foundation and everyone who is with me on this journey. Not as straight as it may seem but am grateful for the opportunity and strength I get everyday from the Lord to keep going.

Until next time, I want to say Thank you to everyone who has been there for me through it all . Merci as I learnt in French this week.

Basics

‘Dont settle for less than what you think you deserve’

Give up or not? Its the question that battles most of us all day and night , but giving up is never an option. It only makes things worse, so i thought of another way. its not as though theres’nt any other options but this among others.

Go back to Basics but don’t settle for less than what you think you deserve. The battle in the heart, who wins? I don’t know to. Being in a quiet place and thinking of nothing is how I find myself, but everyone knows what works for them.  You succeed when you get the opportunities, take them all because you don’t know when they are all going to be gone. Sometimes the low moments push us to be stronger but at times people do give up. please don’t judge a soul before you know their situation. Everyone is fighting a battle inside, all that glitters …

What do you do when you have done something before and came out on top and then the other time you just don’t, how many times have you felt like you are not good enough and its always you. This life is a never-ending journey as I’ve said before, you keep moving. When you get to an obstacle and succeed, then look forward to another. It’s like a never-ending cycle.

There’s no hiding place with life, you either stand strong and walk on or find and excuse to stop. Its such a long way to stop…(sadly). sometimes we must go back to basics and stand firm on what we deserve. On this journey I’ve always said how its important to stay patient. but you know your goals, always push yourself to be better. It’s good to go back to basics sometimes, but also push yourself and see how far you can go. Don’t settle for less than what u think you deserve.

INSTINCT

‘every second counts on the road to greatness’

One of the greatest gifts we all possess is our instinct, to me it’s a voice that always speaks right. Most of the good things that have happened to me have been because I’ve listened to my inner voice and the bad because I didn’t.

I have this friend of mine I’ve just met recently, I have every reason to smile because within a short space of time, time that I don’t even have, I’ve managed to smile, and have my share of happiness in my busy schedule. Only thing is I keep getting scared when …is around, I feel my heart racing fast and sometimes it feels as though they could kill m* for obvious reasons ‘good ‘friends could do, jealousy. It’s not that I don’t listen to my instinct and run away, am still very scared, but am trying to be brave and believe that love will over come all odds and I will survive. I hope I do…

When we are on our various journeys, it’s not all merry, some days are good, and some days are bad. On the good days, we celebrate and during the bad days we need people, family and friends. These are the people who lift us up in moments when we feel low, so I say we need people in our lives regardless. I’ve always said we cannot do things alone, we need people. When you are alone, you can achieve a lot, but together as a team there’s no limitation to what we can achieve.

Its important to have people we trust on our team, people who believe in our dreams and have the love of what they are doing to contribute positively to the team. I always listen to my heart and hope that the pieces will come together in the future. It’s important to do the things we believe in when we have the opportunity because we don’t know what tomorrow will bring. These days things change in a split second and feels as though life is at a sprinting pace, there’s no time to blink and rest, every second counts on the road to greatness.

Let’s cherish the random people we meet who wish us well, sometimes keeping contact of that one person we meet is the key that unlocks opportunities.

Finally, I believe that when we are alone which seems to be the case on numerous occasions, we are never short of who to talk to, or who to listen to when we are making the big choices/decisions in our lives and that’s our instincts…